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lynn23 August 19th, 2007 03:11 AM

I have been seeing a guy casually for about a month. I just found out I am pregnant.. It is definitely his,
and I am really scared and worried about telling him. I have no idea how he is going to react...
does anyone have any ideas. I am feeling so overwhelmed right now!!!

Thank you so much..

asianmama August 19th, 2007 07:45 AM

have u confirmed the pregnancy at the doctors? if so then just tell him-- sit him down and say well i went to the doctors and i am pregnant and its ur baby.
if u havent confirmed the pregnancy yet - wait to tell him until u do.

HighwayDaisy August 19th, 2007 10:43 AM

Yeah, I agree, it's better to be sure before you say anything. I'd also reccommend knowing EXACTLY what you want before you tell him, that way you can be very clear. My SO and I had only been together a few months when I found out, and when I told him I wasn't sure what I wanted to do... that made it hard for us because we had to go through this silent, "thinking about it all" period instead of jumping right into the planning for baby!

hotjai21 August 19th, 2007 11:24 AM

i agree. you should wait until you have seen your dr.- if you havent yet. and you need to be sure about what you are expecting from him- do you want to now be together- do you want him involved- would you rather him not be around and just send you a check once a month?? you need to figure stuff like that out that way you can tell him.. well good luck! i hope that he takes it well..

Melanie. August 19th, 2007 11:51 AM

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i agree. you should wait until you have seen your dr.- if you havent yet. and you need to be sure about what you are expecting from him- do you want to now be together- do you want him involved- would you rather him not be around and just send you a check once a month?? you need to figure stuff like that out that way you can tell him.. well good luck! i hope that he takes it well..[/b]
I'd make sure that you tell him before you decide anything. You wouldn't want to terminate and have a change of heart if he wanted to keep it. KWIM?


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