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~Tanya~ August 17th, 2011 10:15 AM

New to this board & vent about dating
 
Hi everyone!!! This is actually the first time I've posted on this board, but I have lurked... I just needed to vent & see if anyone has any advice about what they would do-

Why does dating have to be so complicated????? Either you like each other, or you don't... Why is it such a game? I have been "seeing" a man for the past 3 months & I am deciding wether I should have the "are you ready for more" talk - I don't want him to feel like I am trying to get married tomorrow, but I am not 20 anymore & I HATE wasting my time. I just want to know in words that he is looking for something serious.

What is an "appropriate" amount of time you should be with someone before bringing it up? Should I wait for him to bring it up? GRRRRRRR!!! It is so annoying to even have to think of, but the last man I was with for almost 2 years seemed to believe what we had wasn't a relationship - I just don't want that to happen again...

Thanks in advance for reading & any advice :)

dana67 August 19th, 2011 01:55 PM

Re: New to this board & vent about dating
 
I'd just bring it up and ask. If it scares him away, then he wasn't the right guy for you and you'll know sooner than later.

I think when you meet someone that you can talk to about anything, and not second guess youself, you may know he's the one. :)

Good luck.


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