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sweetiez October 30th, 2008 09:10 AM

So like it says im having a hard time... First i should announce... That my BESTFRIEND found out she is PG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! which im soo happy for her! And my other friend found out she is having a GIRL!!!..again....soooooooooo exciting...and my friends baby shower is in Jan.09!
My friend that just found out she is PG. Im planning her Baby shower in like may. Needless to say im SOOOO jealous... but SOOOO happy...
One minute im glad its not me..then again i wish soo badly it was me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im having more of a hard time then i thought..... The fact that my daughter is going to be 3! In april is killing me! Me and my sister are 6 years about apart. I HATE!!!! that. We are NOT close what so ever. I dont want that for my kiddos!. So this really upsets me. Im having a hard time thinking that hollyann will be so much older then any other kids i could have.... Its tearing me apart. We have talked about trying in 2010. Right now is toooo sooon. Theres many things that need to be done such as...
School
Finish the basement or buy a bigger house...
Marriage...

And so on.. Shaun knows about this and how bad baby fever i have now since my friends are PG! espically since my BEST FRIEND got pg! Shaun just tell me to start trying for another then lol. Together we dont have any kids together. He is 26 (27 in may) so he'd be ready. Parts of me thinks he has some baby fever too. He is great with kids. I think he'd be such a great daddy. I dont think waitting untill 2010 would be a bad idea.. but who knows. I just wanted to vent.....
My question for you ladies...... How far apart are your kids? And how did/do u feel about it?? Im having such a hard time!!!!!!!!!

Soon2BMommyOf4 November 1st, 2008 04:44 PM

Mine are 16, 13, 10 and almost 3 weeks. Our 3 week old is from a new marriage and he's a first time dad and we wanted to start our family together. Do whatever you feel you need to do. I, on the other hand, will be 35 in June and my clock was ticking and felt that if we were going to do this we need to get started. I plan on having our second and probably last will be here in 2010.

Good Luck and hope I helped in some way,
Tammy


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