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May 9th, 2008, 11:16 AM
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sorry for your loss.

i think it is pretty normal to hold back that excitement and attachement, especially in the first trimester. we didn't even buy anything until after 17 weeks or so (& that was just a toy) b/c we were scared to actually look towards the future. we just couldn't take for granted that a baby will be here in august b/c we knew that things do happen sometimes.

i am sure you will find yourself feeling better & better as you pass each milestone. & you are not a bad mommy,... you are a great mommy for worrying- it is because you love your baby & are scared.
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