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May 9th, 2008, 02:56 PM
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I can certainly relate hunny - and you are by no means a bad Mama!!!! When you've had a loss, I think you DO become afraid to get to attatched, for the fear of another loss. My milestones to get past were 5w4d (2nd loss) & 10w4d (1st loss) - once I past both of those milestones, I did feel better about everything.

Pregnancy after loss IS a hard time, I found it to be very emotionally hard, and for me the fear of having another loss never really went away - even though I knew deep down that everything would be fine....

Post here whenever you want or need to - WE all understand!

((hugs)) I hope the next 4 weeks go really fast for you!

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