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January 15th, 2006, 04:45 PM
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Oh Kaz, i am sorry she said something so insensitive to you...I understand what you eman about people who would react so offended if someone said that to them or about their daughter but yet they think nothing of speaking so off the cuff to other was just an unneccessary comment.. if she wanted to know YOUR feelings about it and truely wasn't so self indulged I think she would have asked, "So kaz when would you like to have your shower because my daughter and I are looking forward to throwing it for you"...
This sounds like one of those times where although the words can sting we have to realize that insensitive comments say more about the person giving them then they do about you.
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