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October 6th, 2008, 03:30 PM
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Oh wow, I'm sorry I missed this!

First off, yes, you are allowed to still be sad about the baby you don't have. It doesn't matter if you have a million more children, none of them will ever replace Baby Taco. You've got the added difficulty of the "if I didn't lose that one, I wouldn't have this one." It's normal to be confused about how to feel in that instance. And missing Baby Taco doesn't make you any less grateful or happy you're having Milkshake. Ever. Missing them means that you loved them and love them still profoundly.

And how sweet of your class to do that for you!! That's awesome. I'm glad that they were able to make that day a bit better for you. AND, like the others said, I'm sure that Baby Taco was there with you, celebrating every moment too.
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