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February 3rd, 2006, 08:56 AM
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I had an ex-bf that used to flirt all the time with other women and it would drive me crazy (as a matter of fact, my ex-DH used to do that too). I absolutely hated it because it made me feel that I wasn't good enough...or pretty enough to keep his attention.

Thank God I kicked him to the curb (he was also physically abusive - and ex-dh...he left me for another woman - who, after almost 16 yrs, he is still with so that was meant to be)!

Anyways, my current DH (of 10 yrs) doesn't flirt at all that I know of...he respects me enough to not do it in front of me. Its such a relief and a big change from my previous relationships.

I agree that you shouldn't accuse him, but maybe you can sit down with him and give him an honest heart to heart talk (and I mean yelling, no accusing, no pointing fingers)...tell him how much it bothers you and that you really need his support (especially since you are getting bigger and bigger each day).

I dream about my DH cheating on me almost daily lately. I just tell him about it and laugh it off. Your pregnancy hormones could be getting the best of you....which is ok because it happens to all of us.

Take care and good luck to you. I hope things work out.

I love my 3 girls and little boy:

Mom to Jessica - 19 yrs old, Amber - 18 yrs old, Sebastian - 2 months
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