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November 29th, 2008, 01:45 PM
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Welcome Sarah. I am sorry for your losses. Ashley is right though - this is a GREAT place to come to talk about it & to be validated for the feelings you have. You will never forget your losses. It just doesn't work that way & you are right - someone who hasn't been there probably doesn't understand that. No one has the right to make you feel like you don't have a right to miss them & remember them. My mom has a cousin that had 4 mc's about 45 yrs ago & when she & I talked about it recently she still got teary. It isn't something you really "get over' it is something you get through & you do get to a point where it isn't as raw & painful as it once was, but it still always has an ache to it.

I hope that by coming here you find that it brings you the love, support & understanding you need to help you in your journey toward trying to heal.

Much love!
B - Crazy momma to my two boys
We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. ~Gloria Steinem

If a man has been his mother's undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it. ~Sigmund Freud
My mom is a neverending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune. ~Graycie Harmon
Don't wait to make your son a great man - make him a great boy. ~Author Unknown
You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they'll turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes. ~Walter M. Schirra, Sr.
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved. ~Erich Fromm
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. - Harold Hulbert
Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children. ~William Makepeace Thackeray
God could not be everywhere, so he created mothers. ~Jewish Proverb
The best conversations with mothers always take place in silence, when only the heart speaks. ~Carrie Latet

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