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February 12th, 2009, 07:46 AM
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Personally I'd find someone else I'm more comfortable with. With all the info you gave her, she should feel you have a pretty accurate EDD and let it go. It's not like you don't know when your last menstrual cycle was, if you really had no clue, then ofcourse they would want to do an u/s to get a date. But you gave her all the info she needs to get a date. To me, this is a sign of being far too dependent on procedures and tests, I'd worry about her competence (does she feel comfortable with births and homebirths in particular), she may end up being hands on when you want a hands off midwife. That's my take, but ofcourse it's up to you and how you feel about it.[/b]

This is how I am feeling, too. I haven't met her and she already is referring to the medical establishment. I appreciate the understanding. I think I'll keep my appointment on tuesday and see if maybe Face to Face we have some kind of repore. Thanks for your input.
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