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May 29th, 2009, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted by JessP View Post
I think it is harder for us because from the moment they are conceived we are supposed to protect them
I totally agree with this. When I lost Cora I felt like I had utterly failed her.

As for the "thinking you were doing so well, but you aren't" ebbs and flows. Sometimes it is really intense. Sometimes it's easier to push away. This is normal. Please don't think that there is something wrong with you.

Look at the Mourner's Bill of Rights in the Comfort Spot. It's a great read, and it tells you so much about what is "normal" for grief.

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