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October 1st, 2009, 03:24 PM
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That's quite a bit to deal with. Ok first things first, have you told your mom you are pregnant? Have you told your ex-fiance? If no to either of these questions, do that. Your mom may change her mind about you leaving if she knows the circumstances. Also, dont worry, stress sucks, but it wont affect your baby as much as you think it will. Take deep breaths, sit down and make a list of things you need. Top priority is taking care of you and your baby.

Are you taking prenatals, you need to. Go to the store and buy some over the counter ones until you see a dr.
Next, figure out where you are going to live. For now dont bank on your ex fiance or try to fix things with him. I hate to tell you, but if didnt want to be with his ex, he wouldnt be. He can just as easily take care of his "maybe" child while not with his ex. Plus you obviously havent been dating that long if he maybe got her pg and you are pg too, which means you probably need to take a few steps back and take care of you and baby before you worry about him and you.

There are lots of programs out there to help girls in your situation, so start looking into those in your area now. Google teen pregnancy help or crisis centers. You will find loads of resources to help you take care of you and your baby.

Also, if you are still in school, dont drop out just because you are pregnant. Now more than ever you need your education.

Good luck and if you need anything else or have more questions just ask. Here's a couple more boards to look at and ask questions at too.

Unplanned Pregnancy - JustMommies Message Boards

Teen Mommies and Mommies to Be - JustMommies Message Boards

Single Mommies - JustMommies Message Boards
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