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October 18th, 2009, 11:27 AM
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My kids are 22 months apart. Having them close is so hard at first. But it gets better I promise. Sounds like you need a little R&R along with some help. One thing to remember to do is take time for yourself. You need some down time too. Especially if you work. I would just not take care of DH if he isn't going to help. Show him how much you do. Don't do his laundry, make his lunch or anything. Sounds like your plate is already full with taking care of the kids and yourself anyway. It is hard to make someone help if they don't want to. Is there anyway you could afford to hire someone to come in and help like a home helper or something. Maybe even a housekeeper who can help you keep the house up once a week. I know I feel more overwhelmed when the house is out of control. I wish there was more I could offer for advice. You can get through this. We are stronger than we think.

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