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January 22nd, 2010, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted by kristenpie View Post
Ok, I feel the need to repost this here since everyone still seems to think that the March DDC mirst off it wasn't a embers were upset about the content. I'm assuming most of you missed this explanation, and maybe reading it will help clarify "what the fuss was about."
First off it wasn't a member of this forum that posted it. It was a very loving sister of a member.
Secondly "It is any mother's worst nightmare, and unfortunately for you all, it became a reality"
UNFORTUNATELY?????? Sorry but what kind of word is that to use in a situation like this?
Thirdly. No other DDC deleted the post and most, if not all, members of those DDCs replied positively about the post.

So we're sorry if a loving sister and a well loved member of JM has upset "a bunch of third trimester pregnant women" but stillbirth is important. It's no use sticking your head in the sand and pretending it doesn't happen. And honestly there was probably no use in deleting Adrienne's post, most ladies had read it anyway and if they hadn't a simple look through other DDC's would have found it. If it caused offence TOUGH how anyone could be offended by that is anyone's guess. Yes it may have caused concern, yes it may have caused increased anxiety in a few members, but if they weren't already concerned or anxcious about the well being of their unborn child, maybe that post was the serious kick up the arse they needed.

Last edited by Jaidynsmum; January 22nd, 2010 at 01:28 AM.