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samirslove March 18th, 2013 12:54 PM

Still not at ease!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok so last night when I went to the lil girls room had some bleeding when I wiped way way more then just a little spotting and it was very red sceared the crap outta me so I sat there for a lil while to see and wiped a few more times and was still spotting so called DH and we went to the ER they kinda made matters worst the nurse that I had which was very young and just seemed like she didn't want to be at work last night.....her bed side manner was very poor and not uplifting at all she brought me a cup and said you need to go pee in this. She was taking my history once we got to number of pregnancies she gave us an look as if we just shoot her dog.

I went to get an U/S they said DH could not come they would not let me see or listen to the heartbeat even after the U/S they never listened to the heartbeat they acted like I didn't know my own due date and when my LMP was keep asking over and over while waiting for the doctor to come in and talk to us he is right out my room talking to another doctor about someone who had miscarried the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks 3 days at this time we still don't know the results of the U/S so of course I'm balling my eyes out thinking that I have lost the baby until 30 mins late DH has lost his cool and now he's upset and demanding answeres and they tells me the baby is fine and they don't know why I was bleeding and to go see my OB but I still don't feel at ease maybe if I could have saw or heard the heartbeat I would feel better or am I just being extra emotional ladies what do you think?????????

sorry so long and just all over the place just had to rant.

Wren March 18th, 2013 01:04 PM

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Good lord. What hospital was that so I can make sure I never go there? I would be really upset after that experience too. Are you going to be able to see your OB soon?

samirslove March 18th, 2013 01:17 PM

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I called her this morning and told her everything and she will see me tomorrow

Miss Bliss March 18th, 2013 01:23 PM

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Wow, awful. How sad that the treated you so unlike a human being...

jamieshalon2 March 18th, 2013 02:03 PM

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That is terrible. I can't believe you were treated that way.

Irshtripletsmommy March 18th, 2013 04:48 PM

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It really bothers me when people are treated like that by nurses and doctors. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope your OB can put your mind at ease.

samirslove March 18th, 2013 07:13 PM

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thank you ladies I am so looking forward to tomorrow this would be my first appt. anyways she moved it up due to the situation I was not suppose to go until friday sooo excited and sceared at the same time

slmehaffey March 18th, 2013 09:19 PM

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I hope you find good news at your appointment.. and I'm sorry about your situation at the ER last night. Reminds me of when I was in the ER for my ectopic baby last year, they wouldn't let me see or hear or anything and then suddenly they were taking me to surgery without having told me why yet. We got answers pretty quickly after they realized they'd done all THEY needed to do without telling ME anything.

Lotsakids March 19th, 2013 01:23 AM

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That is awful :(
Hope your appointment with your ob goes well :)

Allisonjuly March 19th, 2013 06:38 AM

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You might have a small pool of blood in your uterus. My 9 week u/s showed one and they asked if I'd had any bleeding. I said just spotting and they said don't be alarmed if it becomes bleeding. It either has to bleed out or absorb into your body.

Seasaidh March 19th, 2013 07:01 AM

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Healthcare is their job, and sometimes they forget that they're dealing with *people* and not just a night's work.

I'm sorry that happened. That's seriously not ok. Keep us posted about the bean.

drewbears March 19th, 2013 09:37 AM

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:( can you get in to see your doc ASAP and get answers?

~Momma*2011~ March 19th, 2013 09:58 AM

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Hope you get good news at your appt. I can't believe they treated you that way.

anothermother March 19th, 2013 11:02 AM

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Oh wow.... sorry you had to go through that :( Hope you get some great answers today! KUP!

WorkerBeeMama March 19th, 2013 11:12 AM

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How awful! I would never go back to that ER again.

I had two bad experiences with our closest ER and I will not be going there again unless I am having a major life threatening issue where an extra five minute drive might kill me.

I'm sorry you are still so worried. I would call your obgyn and get in asap just to ease your mind.

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