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August 11th, 2010, 10:27 PM
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First of all welcome, and big hugs!

If he doesn't want to be a father, that doesn't mean you can't be a mother. You can still have the baby. You can take care of it and support it. It will be hard, but you can do it, and if he doesn't come around there are resources so you can go through the process of getting a DNA test (which is usually required) and child support.

And above all, your decision to keep this baby does not trap him, and does not ruin his life. Yes, it does mean he will have responsibilities now. But that doesn't mean he has to be with you or marry you. It doesn't even mean he has to be part of the child's life.
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