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September 10th, 2010, 03:53 PM
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Wish I knew how to help.

I had a tubal after my last was regrets and no issues.

I think some men have a macho complex that comes out when they think about their manhood being messed with. My husband wouldnt do a V because of it. He said it would "hurt" LMBO. All I could do not to say DUH but it goes away in a day or two.

Maybe give him 6 mths or so and see what he says. Maybe he'll realize his(and your)hands are full and its all good stopping where you are at and no more kids are to be.

As for BC, I couldnt do hormonal either. Have you looked into the non-hormonal version of an IUD??
I bought some of those strips you insert that are spermicide but never got to use them.
There is the diaphragm too. And if your hubby really gives you attitude about it then tell him to wrap it up if he wants to play...shouldnt be all on you.

~My thanks to *Kiliki* for the siggy and Lucy S for the blinkies~
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