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July 31st, 2011, 02:32 PM
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As much as I hate to say it...this decision has NOTHING to do with him. It's only you alone making it. You are aware of where he stands and now you need to sit down and go over every angle of the situation to figure out what is right for YOU. You need to go over keeping the baby, adoption, and abortion. What can you live with for the rest of your life?

I had an abortion at 10 weeks when I was 17. It was hard and to this day I still feel like I was pushed to have it by my sister. It really built some resentment between us and was one of the factors I used when I decided to cut her out of my life. Odds are if you feel pressured to have an abortion by father and you regret getting it, it will tear your relationship apart anyway.

I never really felt guilt about the abortion it's self until I was with my ex-husband and trying to have children unsucessfully.I over came it though and it hasn't bothered me since. Now I'm pretty much at the end of an unplanned pregnancy and couldn't be happier.

I hope everything works out for you no matter what you choose.

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