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November 18th, 2011, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Kayla0308 View Post
Thanks for being so welcoming. Yea Mark and I have talked about going to the dr before we start trying this next time to see if anything can be done to prevent it. This next kid we have will be the last so I'm not sure if its worth it to get tested, Maybe just hope for the best. But i know he wont want to do that he'd rather know something is wrong then take the risk of losing me during pregnancy or labor. I'm begining to think this was my fault. I kept changing the litterbox, even though i knew i shouldnt. But Mark would forget and the last thing I wanted was the cat messing all over my carpet Maybe i'm to blame for this loss.

Like Liz, my last loss was also "my fault". Same reason too, Placenta pulled away. But I'd fallen on an icy sidewalk in the middle of a sleet storm, nearly destroyed my knee in the process. I didn't know I was pregnant and I was approaching 9 weeks.

I know what you mean about it being your last and not sure if you want to have the testing done. DH and I have talked about this ourselves as we are only planning on one baby (I'm hoping for two), buy he would rather go into it knowing what's going on, than be in the dark. If we have a single loss beyond 6 weeks we'll go for testing, mainly the clotting disorders (my father had almost no natural platelets) because that can cause me health risks too.
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