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December 3rd, 2011, 12:09 PM
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I'm assuming you legally have full custody if he hasn't even called in that long? (@-hole).

I would opt to let the calls go to VM. Personally, when I'm RSVPing for something I prefer to leave a VM.

If her dad calls, you can decide where to go from there (as far as calling him back goes). I also recommend documenting if he does call & how you responded.

That being said, your daughter's probably getting to an age where at some point she's (maybe) going to want to know/connect with her father. You're probably going to have to seriously think about how to handle that when/if the time comes. You're not going to want her to resent you one day for not allowing her to have any relationship with him (if that's what they both want). Hopefully one day she'll realize what an ***** he is on her own knowing you never interfered or influenced her opinion.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It probably crosses your mind every year and I would hate to have anxiety over the same issue year after year.
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