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September 28th, 2012, 03:31 PM
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I took putting my husband and marriage first to mean that I make sure that relationship is strong. My relationship with my kids will always be strong and I work at that too. But if my marriage is a mess than everything at home would be a mess. So I think that its important to focus on your marriage too, not just the fact that you are parents. Make sure that you take care of your children and meet all your needs, but also make sure you are doing the same for your spouse. I think that maybe the wording of "putting first" may be a little confusing?

I think its important to have those date nights with your spouse and make time for each other on a regular basis, even if it is a phone call or a late night talk. Otherwise as someone else said your relationship can become like roommates instead of husband and wife.

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