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September 28th, 2012, 06:01 PM
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I absolutely think that my marriage is a priority but its not my sole priority. I believe that a solid marriage helps produce solid people (not saying those not married or single can't/don't).

My husband and I do not have individual date night without Carter. In fact, in the last 3 months the only time we've been alone without Carter was to go to the store for a couple minutes while Carter stayed with DHs dad.

We talk every day, cuddle every morning and evening, read books together, watch movies together, etc. Carter's almost always included but I don't feel that at this point with a young toddler that there is an excessive need to separate my relationships with my boys. In time, as Carter grows, I'm sure we will take date nights but I'm not comfortable leaving Carter with people I don't 100% trust when he can't talk. If we lived back up north with my family around, perhaps we would.
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