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October 15th, 2012, 10:09 AM
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in my own experience, i never EVER beat the odds, i always if anything beat the good odds to have a tiny % bad odds experience. For me bleeding has always ended in a loss, even where OB wasn't concerned...and symptoms have had virtually no impact on outcome (i get horrendously sick and still lose, lose, lose).

But that said, I remember with my first loss being so desperate for any glimmer of hope, any comfort - however slight the chance - that it wasn't going to end in a loss. So it doesn't bother me when others provide their good outcome stories - that's their truth, their reality...they beat the odds while I don't. And I can't say it won't happen for the poster who raises the question...although most have ended up in TTCAL with me, I can point to examples of ladies who were bleeding at same time I was and are now holding their babies.

Where I do respond to them, I don't mention my experience but I recommend they immediately tell their doctor what's happening and wish them luck...while for many it may already be too late, there's always a few who defy the odds & get their happy ending.

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