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December 9th, 2012, 08:28 AM
My2miracles My2miracles is offline
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My dh is the same way. It drives me crazy. It's like he has to ask her permissin to follow the court order. I have been coaching him over the years & it's getting a little better but not much. He always asks instead of saying.

I did have a small win over Thanksgiving. We wanted to do the exchange on Tues - at 1st bm said ok but it would be late (she works evenings). Then she came back & said no Wednesday night. Well Wednesday night didn't work for dh as he had to get up at 3:15am on Thurs for work. Plus the kids would lose a whole day with dsd that they were counting on. He was going to take it but I said no & to push back. He did. He compromised & drove farther than usual but we still had dsd when it was best for us.

Glad your dh took your coaching & that L agreed. Hopefully it will come more naturally next time.

My 2 miracles: Lucinda & Noah
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