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January 26th, 2013, 04:15 PM
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I am so so so deeply sorry for your loss. I know the pain of losing an infant as I lost my newborn daughter last November at 22 days old. I think the hardest part for me is that nobody talks about her, nobody wants to "upset me". I dont know how true that is in your situation or not. I feel, as mothers, we need to keep their memory alive or else it was like they never existed at all. So I talk about it as much as I can. It makes me feel better, as though she is in the nursery just fine. Everybody has their own coping techniques but I know that going through the loss of a child, much less an infant, is so unnatural feeling and its like a little piece of you died with them. Never to return. Make sure you talk to someone. Dont try to do it alone. I tried and snapped into full blown depression.
I know your pain so please pm me if you EVER need to talk. Best of luck sweetie.

RIP Bristol Grace 10/28/12-11/19/12
You're always in our hearts sweet girl
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