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February 20th, 2013, 05:37 PM
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I am pretty sure DH and I are going to struggle with who we tell if we get a baby. I want to share and be open and DH wants to forget it. He also doesn't want to share his morphology issues with anyone specially his family. We have discussed this a few times and we don't agree. So I drop it - I feel like we need to just get a baby first then we can discuss it then. I would never go against his wishes but I will make it clear that I feel it's my obligation to share so people in the same situation aren't so alone like I have been.

I wanted to start my own local support group because when I needed one I couldn't find one around here. However, there are 2 clinics miles apart from each other with tons of customers. So I know there is a need. Whether we are blessed with our baby or not if my heart pulls me to host/start/organize a group then DH and I will really need to have some discussions.

Hopefully he can watch our babies while I host a support group once a week someday.
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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