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March 19th, 2013, 11:45 AM
Seasaidh Seasaidh is offline
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If you can care for the child alone and want to do so, you are under zero moral obligation to abort. If you can make your choices not affect him, then you don't have to weigh his feelings when you make your choices.

It's unplanned and he has expressed a desire not to be a father at this time. If you can give him what he wants without aborting your pregnancy, do so - there's absolutely nothing selfish about it. It's your body, your life, your choice.

He might decide later that he wants in. You'll have the option of allowing it then or not.

If you don't want to abort, I caution you strongly against doing so. Seriously, at times like these you really have to follow your heart, and you'll suffer unfathomably if you don't. If it feels like going through with it is the right choice, then please do, and do your best to respect the spirit of his choices in the process (don't wreck up his life by telling his parents and girlfriend).

Just my $.02

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