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March 20th, 2013, 01:21 PM
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I don't think it's selfish at all. My boyfriend initially wanted me to have an abortion and we broke up for a few months after that because I simply wouldn't do it. I'd rather be a single mother than live with the abortion. I didn't think it was selfish, I just knew what was right for me. I gave him the option of being in the child's life or not. He stuck around and we're back together now and things are much better, but I'll never regret my choice of keeping this child. Do what is right for you. The father can choose to be in the child's life or not. As long as you're confident that you're ready and able to care for the baby on your own (you've been a single mom for a while already, so obviously it's not an issue), there's no reason you shouldn't keep the baby.

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