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March 30th, 2013, 02:37 PM
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oh no! How awful!!! How dare she!
I can't imagine how you feel right now. I would be so upset. I'm sorry.

I expected infertility to be hard on my marriage...but I didn't expect it to bother some of my friendships. My very best friend ended up accidently pregnant at 39 last year. I had already been trying so hard for three years. She and her boyfriend weren't even sure they'd keep it, but they did. I have to say that as hard as I tried, I couldn't be as close to her as I was before. I know she felt bad, so she didn't ask me to do anything. So I felt completely left out on top of jealous and sad and guilty about being jealous. It was really hard, and still things aren't the same.
Susan, dh Tom, dd Megan (15), ds Marcus (13), Our together miracle, baby Dean, 17 months

Crazy enough to try all over again for a second together baby! Hoping for a much less wild ride this time!

TTC with PCOS for 5 very long years. Annovulatory cycles. Multiple doctors. Different meds. One horrible loss. And then one wonderful success, born 2/18/14.

I never knew until that moment how badly it could hurt to lose something you never really had. - Missed Miscarriage at 10 weeks - 3/26/13
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