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March 30th, 2013, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by starlitnite611 View Post
I don't understand this at all. I have never asked her for anything. Just for her to be there doing what we always do laugh about nothing. I am deeply sorry that I haven't been able to get pregnant for her I can't imagine the loneliness or broken feelings she must be going through. I cannot wrap my head around this.
How lonely SHE is feeling? I don't understand.... IMO she's being totally unsupportive and unfair to you. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be a jerk to her, but really, she sounds like the one that's out of bounds here.

Originally Posted by Lucy S. View Post
Why is this unfair to her I am so confused!

One of my bestfriends that I call me "wife" is pretty much the same. Her 19yo DD just had a baby and I helped throw the baby shower with her. It sucked. When I told her we were TTC, she asked, "WHY? I can't even imagine starting over and I am trying to figure out how I am going to manage this new baby (her DD and grandDS live with her)"
I am in a different spot tho! Even tho we are similar in age, I just got married again and have tons of support. My youngest is 8 (we started TTC when he was 6yo) and wants a sibling whereas her youngest is 14yo!

I just don't talk to her about it and she doesn't ask. I admit I am hurt and bitter about it.
I have almost the same as you (two older and now want one together with my 'newer' hubby) and I HATE it when people ask me why I want to 'start over'!! It's just annoying.
Susan, dh Tom, dd Megan (15), ds Marcus (13), Our together miracle, baby Dean, 17 months

Crazy enough to try all over again for a second together baby! Hoping for a much less wild ride this time!

TTC with PCOS for 5 very long years. Annovulatory cycles. Multiple doctors. Different meds. One horrible loss. And then one wonderful success, born 2/18/14.

I never knew until that moment how badly it could hurt to lose something you never really had. - Missed Miscarriage at 10 weeks - 3/26/13
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