Topic: cold feet
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April 27th, 2013, 09:55 PM
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Try to hang in there! I was 24 when we had DD1 (also very planned), and it was rough. Dh and I had a lot of issues both during and after the pregnancy and it was really miserable, actually! It definitely did not help that DD1 was born early and had a few issues, major colic, etc. It put even more strain on an already very strained situation. It was HARD, I am not going to lie, but we got through it and now, as happy as we are, looking back, I can't even believe it was ever that hard LOL. We never did go to counseling, just sort of muddled our way through it, we both knew that for us, giving up on the marriage was just not an option, so we had to figure it out. I DO think counseling would have been helpful, though, so maybe look into that. PM me if you ever want to talk about it
Ella, age 10
Abby, age 6
Max, age 3

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