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May 6th, 2013, 01:47 PM
humnck humnck is offline
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Delaware (the state!)
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First off, I am sorry for your losses! I had a blighted ovum diagnosed at 8 weeks, had a healthy pregnancy and gave birth to my first daughter in 2009. In 2011, we decided to go for #2, everything was going well until I found out that the baby had stopped developing at 9 weeks and here I was 12 weeks along. That baby had a chromosomal abnormality, but I went on to have another healthy pregnancy and my 2nd daughter will be 1 in June. My doc told me that, sadly, these were just bad luck and it was a terrible coincidence. You are DEFINITELY not alone and the ladies here are great, feel free to vent, cry, scream, whatever you need to get through this!

As for DF, I would talk to him, ask him why he is not ready, if he thinks he will be ready. He may just be scared of going through a loss, assure him that you are too and that you can do this together, support each other together, that you are more than ready and just want to know why he is so cautious and casual about it.
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