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May 7th, 2013, 11:42 AM
Banned-JaeSung JaeSung is offline
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Originally Posted by stillwaiting View Post
Offends you? You having an abortion less than a year ago, and contemplating another one, as a form of birth control offends ME.

I tried for 4 years to have my daughter and another year and a half for this pregnancy. I do not think you value yourself at all. Please do not let this man make decisions for you. You can do anything you set your mind to, you just have to believe you can do it. Stop listening to him say you can't. What do you know deep down you can do?

And I have known MANY women that would give anything to be in your shoes and pregnant. There are so many wonderful couples out there that would adopt your baby in a heartbeat and give him/her the best home possible. Do not make another rash decision you will regret. Please.

This man is wanting no commitment from you, and he just is being selfish and wants no ties to the future with you, when he ultimately leaves. Can't you see how manipulative and controlling he is?
Yes, it does.

I'm sorry it does. But that doesn't affect you. It only affected me. Also, it is NOT used as a form of bc. I was on bc pills since last November.

I value myself, and you don't know me well to make that determination.

I don't need guilt. I had enough of that when I did have an abortion.

I think what it is, is that he doesn't want to commit to someone.

And him saying he wants to stay with me, but he won't if I keep the baby? That's a load of crap to me. If he did want to stay with me, he would regardless. Without conditions. Instead of just running scared.