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May 15th, 2013, 03:35 PM
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I am sorry that you and your dear are not on the same page regarding expanding your family. I haven't any experience with this, personally, but I feel for you.

I do not think it is unreasonable to expect him to take responsibility for contraception if he is the one who does not want more children. If you secretly removed your contraception to get pregnant while he thought you guys were protected, that would be different, but you have been straight forward about your plan to remove the contraception, your expectation that if he wants to avoid pregnancy that will be his responsibility and your desire for one more child.

I hope that either you find peace with 4 or his heart is opened to more.
Mom to four beautiful girls
Matilda (6), Evelyn (5), Adelaide (3), Cecily (20 months)

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