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May 26th, 2013, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by fludderbye View Post
I hear You- DH & I Def beat to our drum - Screw what everyone else thinks !!!
we didnt get married till i was 26 & had our first at 27 i am now 39 & exp # 4

& everyone was like Oh My 4 kids- why- I just look at them and say why not?
they are fun to make- & that usually shuts them up LOL

Congrats BTW on yours !!
Back when kids were used on the farm, etc.. people saw big families as a blessing. So much has changed. It's sad. People don't see that if you only have two kids, your only replacing yourselves. Countries like China that have horrifying population control methods are back peddling now because they see a grim future.

Originally Posted by Rebelmommy View Post
I had my first 4 months after I turned 19, and people gave me looks because I was to young (even though I was married) I just had my most recent 3 months after I turned 38, and people gave me looks because i was to old. You just can't win. We plan to have another, and I don't care that society thinks I am to old or that my family is already bigger than it should be! LOL
I don't think it's anyone else's business at what age or how many kids you have (for married adults)... 19 is not too young if you know what you want and can take care of your baby! Your still young!!! You could have two or three more :-)
Children are a heritage from the Lord,
offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

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