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June 24th, 2013, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Xtapolapocet View Post
I really hope you're joking on this, otherwise I feel so bad for you!!!
Definitely not joking! Part of therapy is to finally write out my birth story, which i've been putting off. Maybe i'll post it here when i get it done.

Originally Posted by d_tops View Post
I hope it's going well.

I know that I have to actively not beat myself up over how things went. Especially the breastfeeding. I start mentally going down that road and think "but what if I'd just..." and I have to make sure that I don't let myself finish that thought. Dwelling on delivery and breastfeeding just hurts too much, and I want to focus on what's here and now, but it's work to do that.

I'm a big fan of (good) therapy. I hope you're getting what you need there.
That's exactly why i started. I tried not to dwell on everything but i couldn't stop. And i'm so glad i started - i just wish i hadn't waited until 20 weeks postpartum to do it!! And now i just have to say, if anybody in the back of their mind thinks maybe they are still dealing with PPD but have been putting of talking to somebody - DO IT! It makes so much of a difference!!

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