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July 1st, 2013, 06:01 AM
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FW, I have a big memory, too. I liked your post because I love love love your comparison between Quad Carrying SIL not aborting and you having 4 singletons. I feel like that is exactly how people view it, "Oh how miraculous! You had 4 babies at once! bravo to you for choosing to let them all live instead of being selective! You are a strong woman!" Then they look at a mom to singletons and say, "Seriously. Haven't you tied your tubes yet?"

Why are our children any less miraculous born one at a time than 4 at once? I am guilty of the opposite, I see the miracle in that we were able to get pregnant and give birth. I see a mom who had 4, 5, 6 , 7, or 8 all in one pregnancy and think science project!!!

I'm out of sorts this morning. Feels like I danced with a mack truck UGH

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