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July 7th, 2013, 11:34 AM
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Lost- Great big hugs to you Momma!!! I had zero control of my first birth and ended up with a c section. I had an awful recovery which resulted in some PPD, BFing and supply issues/failure. I had a really hard time recovering emotionally from that experience so i hate to hear when others have to sort thru that as well.

Funny thing is when pregnant with my first I thought NCB was insane and wanted all the drugs in the world. But after having to cope with how things turned out I knew I wanted a VBAC and NCB. Id be a complete hypocrite to judge others for wanting what I once wanted. But ive been there, done that and dont care to experience it again. That doesnt make me judgemental--ive learned from my experiences what birth and recovery experience I prefer for myself. Period! If someone feels judged simply from someone having or wanting a natural birth then seems like theyre dealing with their own insecurities. The whole post seemed like misplaced anger.
Expecting #3 in January 2016!

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