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July 13th, 2013, 09:05 AM
MelChicago MelChicago is offline
Just keep breathing.
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 1,734
It's nice of you to care. Since she hasn't responded to your overtures so far, I would back off. You aren't close to her personally, so you really don't know what she wants or needs to process her grief. What was helpful for you may not be helpful for her.

If it were me, I wouldn't like receiving a poem that someone else wrote or sweater that someone else knit. I'd consider those expressions of the other person's grief, not MY expressions of MY grief. Other ppl may feel differently, of course.

I truly admire your intentions, though, and think you are a very compassionate person.
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