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July 21st, 2013, 11:59 PM
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I agree with Ame, I don't think you really get over the anxiety or fear, you just work through it and try to make the best of it. After you have a loss, you can never turn back the clock and get that innocence back that you had about conceiving and bearing children.
Before my loss, I thought hey, no problem, I can have children and they will be healthy like my mom did and my sister did and women all over the world do. I knew sometimes miscarraiges happen, but I didn't think it would happen to me. Post-loss, I realized that bad things can happen, and not every pregnancy is perfect. So you live with that realization the next time you try again. It's hard, but it's worth it to be able to have a rainbow baby to hold. It doesn't make you miss the one you lost any less, but it does give you something positive to look forward to in life.
Keep us posted how it goes for you after your two week wait...I hope to hear that you get a positive pregnancy test!

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