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July 25th, 2013, 09:51 PM
BeckyBozeman BeckyBozeman is offline
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That's rough Melissa... and so sad not only for her but that there will be a bit of a damper on your pregnancy for a while with your family. If it was me, I'd be so grateful to have the person that was pregnant tell me in private before I even had a chance to wonder. I'd also love to hear them tell me that they understand that I couldn't be wholly happy for them right now and that if I needed to have some space for a while they wouldn't be offended and would totally understand. I guess I'd say tell her quietly and privately and then leave it up to her how much she hears or is involved after that. I know that right after my first loss it seemed like I was surrounded by pregnant women and babies and it was so hard at first. But then it was almost like it became healing and it helped me get outside of myself and my own pain. But yeah talking to those closest to her about how they think she'd want things to go would probably be best...

Hugs that's such a hard situation...

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