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July 29th, 2013, 12:34 AM
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With our second, I was a bit ambivalent about it, I knew I wanted more than one but wasn't sure I wanted to start the process all over again (newborn, pregnancy, etc). We did NTNP for a year, and then I had a miscarriage after being pregnant for a couple months. That cemented my desire to TTC...once I was emotionally ready, I was POAS with the ovulation predictors, timing BD'ing, and all that jazz. I wanted a second one so badly.
Sometimes I think it's ok to be not 100% sure you want another one, and just go for it. I think for some people, they always will have the little insecurities about it, for whatever reasons--finances, can I handle it emotionally, etc, and maybe for those people you just can't have the 100% all-in mentality. That's just my 2 cents!

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