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November 1st, 2013, 02:22 PM
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No one has said she is going to push everyone away. What we have all said is that she is forever changed by what has happened and you cannot judge her now based on past behavior. She might be pushing her husband away because she is mad at him for telling you what had happened. She might be pushing him away because she just can't cope. She might just be trying to deal with this how she can without breaking down further and not realizing that she is pushing everyone away.

If your son is truly concerned, he should seek out a counselor to talk to about how he is dealing with this and see if a licensed professional has any advice for him to help him and his wife through this. You need to allow them to deal with this and stop being so offended that she hasn't bounced back already and able to do what you want. Maybe in a few months she will be able to talk about it, but right now she's heading into the hellacious holiday season. Everyone grieves in their own way, allow them to grieve in their own way, on their own time.

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Me: 27, PCOS, ENDO, RPL, severe vitamin D defficiency
Him: 36, severe MFI post VR but counts climbing

2006-2015 7+ years of NTNP, TTC, TTCMA, Losses, Surgeries, and Diagnoses.
RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
Multiple early losses between 3 and 8 weeks.

IVF referral in= 7/2017
RE Appt #1- 8/22/2017- doctor swears I don't have PCOS or RPL, go VEGAN to cure all
RE Appt #2- 8/24/2017- sono shows clear cysts, high afc, all bloodwork comes back PCOS typical

PAUSED UNTIL JANUARY 2018 to find a new IVF clinic

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