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January 13th, 2014, 07:06 PM
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Your in a very difficult situation for sure and add a pregnancy on top of that.....its almost too much for any one to handle. It sounds as if you love your BIL very much and obviously this could be his. Have you talked about it to him? Is he willing to loose all communication with his family if this secret comes out? Because lets face it, most likely, your husbands family may not forgive you and BIL. As for the baby, thats a tough one for sure. Not only do you face bringing your BIL's baby into the world, but possibly your own childrens, brother/sister/half-cousin/half brother or sister! There is alot to consider. This decesion will, no matter the outcome, will affect EVERYONE IN YOUR LIFE. Choose the path that you can live with, as ultimately, you may loose both men in your life and only have your children left to consider. I wish you well and pray that you find some support from family/friends.
momma of 8 beautiful children now. Most recent is Jerry Jr. born 11/19/12 at 37wk, 7lbs 6oz and 19.5inches and Baby Reymundo born 10/7/13 at 35w6d, 6lbs 7oz, 19.5 inches. Momma of 5 angels. New siggy to come!

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