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January 14th, 2014, 02:08 AM
Happy mom77 Happy mom77 is offline
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Hi Susan,
So sorry to hear what you are going through. Having a baby is the most amazing, precious thing ever and feeling anxious is the most natural feeling (sign of a good mom)! Forgive me for saying but it sounds as though you never really got over, or moved on from your loss at 10 weeks and it's almost as though you haven't completely accepted your pregnancy this time around. Do you hold a sense of guilt for your miscarriage which is stopping you from embracing this pregnancy? It's like you're scared to believe you are lucky enough to be pregnant again and so aren't buying things for baby, making it real in a manner of speaking.
Susan, you deserve this beautiful baby boy, he's a gift and he is healthy and well and growing from all the love his mommy has for him.
Embrace your pregnancy, feel his movements, relish your pregnancy symptoms as affirmation that he is there and healthy. Stop worrying about what could happen and enjoy what is happening...your amazing, healthy pregnancy. Forgive yourself and be kind to yourself, you deserve to live each precious moment of pregnancy and one day soon, you'll hold your baby boy and know he is absolutely perfect!
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