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July 2nd, 2014, 02:34 PM
Sassalota Sassalota is offline
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Join Date: Nov 2012
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I realize child spacing means so much more to AP moms. Only this group can get the level of dedication and I have a high needs son so I am so on the fence and I my main concern is that I have been home with LO the whole time and he is very protective of me and huge mama's boy. I don't use baby sitters.

I really think I would like to have 2 kids under 3 years of age so that they have a sibling in their same age group. My LO is 16.5 months but for the life of me, it breaks my heart for him, when I think of adding another baby. He wants to be held constantly and still pretty much EBFs as he only does a little baby food.

How do you know when it's time from AP point of view. I cant even think about leaving my LO to go to the hospital for 2-3 days to have a baby that's how little I left him. I just don't know if he can adjust. I have read studies written by therapists who have clients that are middle aged and have issues steaming from childhood where they felt jaded when a sibling was added.

What do you guys do?
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