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July 31st, 2014, 12:47 PM
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That's a tough position to be in. I agree that it sounds like you want this baby and you are scared. I was scared to. I got pregnant after 3 months with my BF - he was so happy and I was TERRIFIED... and to be honest I still am a little. I spent 6 years in university and I have my accounting degree and I always thought that my career was going to be number one, but now everything has changed. I won't be able to progress more into my career I will kind of be stuck in the middle rather than the top - and the truth is - I LOVE it. Life isn't all about a working. I never wanted to have kids and now I am already thinking about when I will have another after this one comes. My whole life plan has changed and I actually love it more than the plan I had before. Embrace change! I know you can get through the rough stuff and financial stuff, and there will be ups and downs, but in the end it will all work out and you will be happy. Good luck!
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