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May 22nd, 2007, 11:38 AM
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Yeah, I'm sort of in the same boat. DH is leery about the big V. His main thing is that although we DO NOT want any more kids, he's thinking that if ANYTHING happened, like something tragic with our kids, and years down the road we wanted to even attempt to have another, TL is a little easier to reverse. I realize that you can't think about reversal at all, though, you have to assume it's permanent regardless of what you do because the chances are super slim for either to reverse.

But I can't stop thinking about post tubal ligation syndrome.

But I am SO fed up with using the diaphragm, and there aren't any other options for us. NFP, yeah right! DH hates abstaining even for AF, so that would just kill him. And all other BC options are no good for us for one reason or another. And I'd be terrified of the possibility of accidentally having another baby - couldn't mentally handle another, so I'm not sure I want to stay with the diaphragm.

Sigh...I just wish it were a lot easier. Maybe DH will eventually change his mind.

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