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March 31st, 2008, 12:11 AM
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I know the feeling - ours was a cord accident, but just a "regular" one, and I don't think it's any easier. I feel sick when I think that he strangled to death while I had absolutely no idea. I try not to think about it too much or I will break down.

I hate that it was a freak accident, I still think "why me?" I hate when people say to me "it was a freak accident, it won't happen again, so don't worry". That makes me SO angry. How does anyone know it won't happen again?!!?! There is so many different freak accidents, and ways a baby can die, and just because I lost one, doesn't mean there's some magic karma thing out there that says I won't lose another.

I understand your pain and frustration, and I'm glad that you have an answer, but I am sorry it doesn't give you any comfort. *hugs*

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