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lwhritenour723 November 1st, 2013 05:40 AM

PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
i am NOT ttc by any means however i do have some questions and i would REALLY appreciate help!!!

my cycle seems to have become more ''normal'' then ever before this year
july, 26th august 28th and september 26th i got my period

my husband and i had unprotected sex a few times the first week of october
and me never really having any need to chart my cycles i decided to try a few
just to see according to EVERY chart my most fertile time was october 8th-12th
and my expected period was october 26th however AF didnt come and still isnt here
just to settle my nerves, even though i kind of know its to soon, ive taken 5 hpts ALL
negative using fmu and night time as well this past week i have had some slight symptoms
bloating, lower stomach pains sore breasts (much like i get the day before AF) so ive just been assuming it would come everyday ..i dont know what to make of this? i dont know if im just testing to soon or if im just not pregnant and this is all just a waste of time, we will be over the moon if we are but like i said were not ttc so if AF does come, we wont be worrying next month any ideas? thank you in advance!!

acchickpea November 1st, 2013 07:09 AM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
I've read that sperm can live up to 5 days once in and if you say you are mostly fertile around that time it could possibly have found it's way to the egg. But if you are uncertain of exactly when you have ovulated then a lot is a guessing game. seeing as though you were pretty much regular there may be a chance that you are. Usually after you have ovulated the saying goes you are then in a Two week waiting period. Maybe you ovulated later. If you can remember when you had unprotected sex... if your cervical mucus was like a raw egg white-ish texture that is a sign that you are about to ovulate... if not then you may not have ovulated... which means that the timing of your DH sperm to your egg really didn't connect... usually stress plays a role into late menstral as well...

Wait to test a few days from now but till then just let your body take its course.

Lyndsey2013 November 1st, 2013 10:13 AM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
I seemed to have had more 'pregnancy' symptoms on months I didn't get pregnant than when I actually did. I agree that stress can play into it, and that you may just need to wait another week to test. Good luck

pattyandthemoos November 6th, 2013 07:18 AM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by acchickpea (Post 27771757)
I've read that sperm can live up to 5 days once in and if you say you are mostly fertile around that time it could possibly have found it's way to the egg. But if you are uncertain of exactly when you have ovulated then a lot is a guessing game. seeing as though you were pretty much regular there may be a chance that you are. Usually after you have ovulated the saying goes you are then in a Two week waiting period. Maybe you ovulated later. If you can remember when you had unprotected sex... if your cervical mucus was like a raw egg white-ish texture that is a sign that you are about to ovulate... if not then you may not have ovulated... which means that the timing of your DH sperm to your egg really didn't connect... usually stress plays a role into late menstral as well...

Wait to test a few days from now but till then just let your body take its course.

I agree. It's hard to know exactly when you are fertile but if you noticed fertile signs like ewcm when you had sex, you could have been fertile.

Has AF showed yet? Any updates?

Blue Eyes 409 November 6th, 2013 07:24 AM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
For me pregnancy symptoms are so close to AF signs that when my cycle was late I did not even think about testing till I was a few days late. I then got a BFP and was shocked you may have DTD close enough to ovulation to get pregnant or maybe you just ovulated late. Stress can make you late so just try to relax and test again in a couple of days. Good luck I hope that you get the answer that you want.

Rachel November 6th, 2013 01:21 PM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
If AF was due on the 26th (or thereabouts), I don't think it's too soon to test and would trust the results at this point.

Good luck!

Mommy29 November 6th, 2013 03:46 PM

Re: PLEASE HELP!!!! ( lost, confused, not sure what to make of this)
 
Any updates ?


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